Musictoday still sucks, but...
Now that the S&A DVD release has been postponed till June -- I called Musictoday again and asked them to cancel just the CD from my order -- telling them that when I placed my order, I did not expect to have to wait till June to get the CD. THE ACTUALLY AGREED TO DO IT. I talked to a guy who called himself "Bentley" -- I didn't have to argue with him or anything.
He said I should get a credit on my credit card in about 72 hours.
We'll see if they follow through.